Your words are so true and right- and I hate to admit, something I am still trying to learn! My favourite line is the following: nervous system activation is not love. Feel ashamed that although i understand this, still find myself inexplicably drawn into such unfortunate situations...
You're right and Ig author needs to feel the same thing, I'm nobody to put perspective on basis of what I've experienced bcz that's my personal learning and not a fact but one thing for sure I can say if your nervous system keeps rejecting safe love or if you find yourself in a same loop of anything then you need to move inward and do the required healing self introspection part.
Your words are so true and right- and I hate to admit, something I am still trying to learn! My favourite line is the following: nervous system activation is not love. Feel ashamed that although i understand this, still find myself inexplicably drawn into such unfortunate situations...
You're right and Ig author needs to feel the same thing, I'm nobody to put perspective on basis of what I've experienced bcz that's my personal learning and not a fact but one thing for sure I can say if your nervous system keeps rejecting safe love or if you find yourself in a same loop of anything then you need to move inward and do the required healing self introspection part.
This is so good!
We share the exact same story. I cannot relate more. I took a screenshot of this passage:
“One leaves you constantly stimulated.
The other leaves you at peace.
One makes your body brace for intensity.
The other makes your body exhale.”
Now that I have found the loml, this is so true. Nothing is a battle anymore, everything flows naturally.