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Jennifer Thomas's avatar

The quote that say " Of all the ways to loose a person,death is the kindest", just made so much sense now, so sorry about your brother

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Literally saw that quote today on my feed! Thank you for your kind words.

allison relyea's avatar

this relates all to well,, so beautifully written<3

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Thank you so much.

K M's avatar

I know exactly how this feels, I went through the exact same thing with my older brother. Thank you for sharing <3

Have you watched the film "Blue Heron"? You'd love it!

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Adding to my list ✍️

Len's avatar

You captured this grieving process so well. Totally relatable.

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Thank you so much. I’m happy it resonated

Ana Daksina's avatar

I knew a man whose wife died of a brain tumor. Her actions were extremely erratic and unpredictable ~ he worked from home, and eventually got her an apartment of her own in the same complex. After her death, when it was discovered what had been going on, his sense of guilt was overwhelming. But he had done the best he could with what he knew. Nobody blamed him for his actions.

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That’s awful. Accepting that you did everything within your control was the hardest but most necessary step towards healing for my family. I hope that man finds peace.

Ana Daksina's avatar

I'm sorry to say he married my daughter. Opposite of.